THE CULTURE OF MAI PEN RAI
The Thailand Theses
If ever a phrase defined a nation, that phrase is mai pen rai. Wherever you go in Thailand – and whatever you do – you will hear these words almost as often as the traditional greeting sawaat dee. Mai pen rai - No problem. It doesn’t matter what you did, everything is mai pen rai in Thailand. But is it really such a good thing for the Thais to be so forgiving? Find out our conclusion here...
Mai pen rai is as much a part of the Thailand experience as the wai, tuk-tuks and Wat Phra Kaew. But what does it really mean? “No problem”? “It doesn’t matter”? “Don’t worry about it”? “OK, but don’t do it again”? Answer: All of the above and so much more.
You’re late for an appointment? Mai pen rai. You break a glass in a restaurant? Mai pen rai. You embezzle billions of baht from public funds? Mai pen rai.
As with many Thai phrases, mai pen rai has a far deeper meaning than any single English translation. These three seemingly innocuous little syllables bear the weight of a nation and have come to define its very psyche. Mai pen rai is a way of life to Thai people. It is their mantra for the modern world.
While it may be charming to foreign visitors, we ask the question: Is mai pen rai a national treasure, or a barrier to progress?
On the face of it, the culture of mai pen rai is a national asset and part of Thai people’s charm. Apart from in soap operas, you very rarely see Thai people showing negative emotions like anger and frustration. From an early age, they are taught that to do so is childish and immature and so they are trained to keep their emotions in check. Their apparent laid-back and easy-going tolerance is as much a part of their friendly charm as the famous smile that often accompanies it.
Mai pen rai is the sea of calmness on which the good ship Thailand drifts, but peer beneath that placid surface and you will find something sinister lurking in the murky depths.
Mai pen rai goes far beyond good manners and serenity. It is the easy option, ignoring problems and avoiding confrontation. It is the inaction that arrests development and allows tyranny and corruption to prosper at all levels.
Whenever somebody jumps a queue unchallenged, mai pen rai is the sedative that prevents protest. Whenever a drunk driver takes the wheel, mai pen rai tells him it’s OK to do so. Whenever nepotism rather than aptitude is the basis for career advancement, mai pen rai bites the tongues of the more worthy. And whenever a politician lines his own pocket at the taxpayer’s expense, mai pen rai let’s him get away with it.
Patience and forgiveness are admirable traits, but passive submission and meek acceptance create a culture of corruption that stunts progress and ultimately holds the country back. Nobody wants to curb Thai people’s charm and friendliness, but if they are serious about tackling corruption and becoming an internationally competitive nation, then it’s time for them to stand up and confront their problems and injustices.
Paul Snowdon – March 27, 2010
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Have your say...
Jan Vleugels
28 Mar 2010, 12:07
Hi Paul,
I agree with you that "mai pen rai" is maybe the most significant part of
the "Thai" experience. I believe also that while they in particularly
never show anger, it is 1 of the most important reasons why we (farang)
like the country and its people so much; because it is the total opposite
of how we westerners act. You have a point that in a way progress in Thai
society is held back by this attitude; but if the Thais will change and
loose this attitude, then I am convinced the people will start to think and
do similar as us, western people, and probably the country will loose a lot
of its attractiveness.
And then i doubt if this would benefit the country and the people...
Nevertheless, you wrote a very nice column on a real specific Thai topic.
Greetings from Belgium,
Jan
Pond
31 Mar 2010, 02:16
It is true and I love your point; but, there is corruption in almost every
country, so I think that this Thais' trait may not relate to corruption
issue.
